Tonight I am thankful. For more things than I could ever list. I considered trying to create a list, but this post would be infinitely long. Suffice it to say I am thankful for Jesus, for my salvation, for the world's most wonderful husband, for two beautiful, sweet daughters, for my church family, and for some precious friends.
Thanksgiving is different for us this year. A year ago, on our way home from celebrating Thanksgiving with both our families in Georgia, Kearsdad and I made a decision. We decided that in 2009, we would spend Thanksgiving at home. Our families were welcome to join us here, but we would not be traveling this year. There were a lot of reasons for that decision, and I won't go into them all. Our decision was announced to our parents and we were done.
As it turns out, no one accepted our invitation to join us. Not surprising, really. They all have their own reasons...Kearsdad's parents hate to travel, and they have already been to see us once this year. My brother and his family have never been to visit us. My parents (make that my mother, she is the decision maker) felt like they should go to my brother's since they will be here for Christmas. All of that was really ok with us.
We are really excited about this Thanksgiving. We have never spent Thanksgiving alone, just the four of us. There is something to be said for family tradition and big family gatherings. But there is also something to be said for a quiet holiday with no craziness, no exceedingly long drives, no shuffling from one family to the other. One of the greatest blessings in my life is my precious family...these three other people with whom I share my life. The fact that we love being together, love doing things together, and love adventures together is something I treasure.
So tonight we have eaten dinner, watched a movie, and eaten pumpkin bread pudding. Kearsdad has started the fire on the smoker and prepared the turkey for it's overnight smoking. Cornbread is cooked and ready to be turned into dressing. My mom came through and spend a couple of days with us on her way to my brothers. She left me some of her "dressing mix" that I will add to the cornbread. Our menu (just the things we like with none of the "extras" that my mom insists on because "we've always had them") is planned and ready to go.
Happy Thanksgiving to anyone taking the time to read this. May God bless you richly. He has certainly done so for me.